CODEPENDENCY or FREEDOM?

​Whether you know it or not, codependency is at the heart of many problems in life.

The dictionary describes it as: excessive emotional or psychological reliance on a partner, typically a partner who requires support due to an illness or addiction.

I would extend this definition to overlooking your own personal needs to be there for someone or something else, and then blame that someone/something else as the thing that is holding you back, rather than taking responsibility for your own fulfillment and goals in life.

It shows up as:

• Serving others to the detriment of yourself
• Making other people responsible for your well being
• Being ‘too busy’ and ‘overwhelmed’ all the time
• Making excuses for not doing what you really want to do in life
• When you go for your dreams, injuries, illness, or other calamities happen
• Not being able to orient yourself or feel whole for a long time after a breakup
• Feeling disempowered, or even in pain in your solar plexus area
• Attracting and staying with hot messes or abusive types until your life goes down the tubes…again
• Feeling like you are doing all the work in a relationship

It may seem like it’s all their fault, but the common denominator in all these situations my friends…. is you.

You may have been on the journey of your personal work for a long time, but there are still these sticking points of empowerment that you are ready to dive into.

Healing codependency can be difficult, but it also can be fun!

Here’s what can happen:

• Feelings of deep self love
• Unapologetically living and speaking your truth
• Finally committing to your creative purpose
• The ability to say NO and stick to it
• The ability to say YES and stick to it
• Healthy, fulfilling relationships
• Self respect on a deep, deep level
• Multidimensional, creative ecstasy!
• The universe lining up for you and giving you ‘miracles’

I love to help people heal codependency through their divine connection and creativity. Because once their sacred art is expressed, the self that has been dying for attention starts to speak loudly! She roars!  Say YES to freedom, it is within you.

New course to heal codependency and be creatively free, starts Monday, April 9th. Email me to learn more.